What is autism?

Autism is a neurodiverse condition, which means that your brain works in a different way to other people. It can impact the way you think and how you see the world around you. It’s something you’re born with, and is a spectrum, meaning it affects people in different ways. Autism is sometimes called autism spectrum disorder (ASD).

If you’re autistic, you might: 

  • Prefer to stick to routine and find changes to routines difficult – for example, you may find new situations, or a change in your routine, tricky to cope with. You might need some support to help you figure out what to expect.

  • Have intense or specific interests.

  • Struggle to understand or recognise other people's emotions and feelings. Or find it hard to talk about your own.

  • Have communication and social interaction differences – for example you may have a literal understanding of language, and you might struggle with sarcasm.

  • Have different sensory needs – you may be more sensitive to loud noise, lights, or crowds, for example.

  • Try and mask how you are feeling – for example, you might feel like you have to ‘fit in’ by forcing something doesn’t come naturally to you, like eye contact. This can be exhausting.

How to look after your mental health with autism

Autism isn’t a mental health condition or an illness. But, just like any young person, if you’re autistic it’s important to look after your mental health.

Some things that can help to look after your mental health include:

  • Keep to a daily routine if you find change difficult.

  • Think about situations or experiences that make you feel stressed or overwhelmed, so when they come up you can prepare for them.

  • Talk to people you trust about how you are feeling.

  • Understand what communication and social interactions you find difficult.

  • Understand your sensory needs and create strategies to help you manage, for example making sure you have quiet time to regulate.

Advice from other autistic young people

Navigating something new is scary but rely on the people around you. Try and open up to people so they can give you the right support.

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It's ok to cry. We experience emotions differently to others and not many non-autistic people understand that.

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Supporting a friend with autism

If you have a friend who is on the autistic spectrum, and you’re worried about them, you could try to:

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  • Find out how they like to communicate best – this might be through messages, writing things down, or talking whilst doing an activity.

  • Talk to them in check in – you could choose somewhere quiet, with soft lighting, to make sure it’s a calm environment.

  • Give them time – your friend might need time to process your questions and answer them. Silences might happen but give them time to respond and chat back.

Find support

If you’re struggling to find support, or feel like there isn’t someone to talk to, there are other ways you can get support and advice.

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National Autistic Society

The National Autistic Society provides advice, guidance, and help and support for children, adults and families.

Childline​​​

Childline is a free 24/7 hour service for if you need urgent support, or someone to talk to in confidence. You can speak to a counsellor anytime online or by phone about anything.

Other advice and support:

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How to access support

We are all wonderfully unique, which is why the right support will look different to everyone. There are lots of types of support, it’s all about finding out what’s going to be best for you.

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Identity and who you are

Your identity is made up of lots of different things – a unique set of characteristics which make you, you. Having a sense of it can help give you a foundation to feel more settled and secure in yourself.  

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Mindfulness and meditation

Life can be a lot of things: busy, fun, stressful, distracting and everything in between! It can be easy to get in your head and overthink things - thoughts and feelings can take over, and you might feel that you aren’t being present.

All of the information on this page was created with practising health professionals. This page was reviewed in April 2025. We will next review the page in 2028.

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