How we can help
Barnardo's Orchard/Mosaic project has a lot of experience working with young people whose lives have been affected by sexual abuse. We know that young people who have experienced sexual abuse often want support to deal with the after effects. The project has been set up to work only with young people who feel they want support.
For children and young people who have been abused:
We understand that you have been brave enough to talk about what happened, and our job is to try and help you to sort out your feelings. Some people try and sort out these feelings for themselves but sometimes it can be too difficult to do.
We believe that if you can show your feelings to someone you feel safe with it can help you feel better. We can listen and talk to you, or if you find it hard to talk, playing, painting, reading and making things can be other ways of showing your feelings.
Anything you say in a session or a group will not be shared or passed on to other people unless we are worried that you, or someone you know of, is being hurt, or is likely to be hurt.
When you come to Barnardo's Orchard/Mosaic project you will have your own worker who will arrange to see you for up to one hour, for six sessions, weekly or fortnightly. You can see somebody on your own, or you can join a group with other young people.
It is important for you to know that:
- we believe you
- we are sorry it happened to you
- we’re glad you told
- it’s not your fault
- we can help .
We understand that:
- you might feel angry, sad and confused
- you might find things difficult with people you live with
- things like going to school or being with friends may be difficult
- you may have trouble eating and sleeping
- all of these things are ways in which children can show how they are upset.
For parents whose children have been abused:
If you feel your child has been sexually abused, are worried that you are to blame, or are wondering who can help you and your child, Barnardo's Mosaic project are here to help. We also offer a varied service for parents and carers, including counselling for families and a parents’ group. Please contact us to find out more.
